God, Sex and the Meaning of Life
Theology of the Body
Theology of the Body Conference in Toronto

Conference Results and Pictures
The Humanae Vitae Conference  was held in Toronto on Nov. 15, 2008.

Before the Theology of the Body Conference Christopher West appeared on the Michael Coren Show on CTS.  Click on the link below to see it.
You can see Christopher West on Youtube jamming with Critical Mass
Presentation And Training Techniques Report

Training Report ...Click here to find out more
Critical Mass, the Canadian Catholic rock band, are pleased to announce a mp3 giveaway!  The band are two-time winners of the Canadian Gospel Music Association Award for Best Rock Album and played for over a million at World Youth Day 2002.  Their new album, "Body Language", is based entirely on the Theology of the Body and is about the Church's view on love, sex, communion and our eternal destination.  By going to the URL below and clicking the REDEEM IT button on that page, you will have an opportunity to download an alternate mix of the title track "Body Language (loops version)". Enjoy AND PLEASE forward this info to any youth that might be interested!

S+L Program Info
In the wake of a sensationalized TV interview, Christopher West was thrust into a debate about his teaching on John Paul II's Theology of the Body. The popular author and speaker responds to the controversy in a candid discussion with host Kris Dmytrenko. Also interviewed are authors Brett Salkeld and Leah Perrault, who consider whether Catholic audiences are ready for frank discussions of faith and sexuality. (Salt & Light Promotions)

To see Pictures and Reports - click here
National Theology of the Body Congress
Theology of the Body Newsletter

The January  2019 Newsletter is now avaiable - Click here

Theology of the Body for Teens Study Group

“It changed my life.” was one student’s response at the conclusion to the Theology of the Body for Teens study group at Fr. Leo J. Austin in Durham Region.  Others said....

GSML Ministry just completed a 12 week program using the ToB for Teens.  Working with approximately 100 teens, it was an exciting time, and we enjoyed and learned so much from these young people.

The Religion Department made us feel very welcome, and we came to know that the school was blessed by many teachers who truly care for their students’ welfare and well-being.  The students themselves participated actively and had many penetrating questions. 
The “ice breaker” activity set the pace for the daily instruction and the students looked forward to them each time.  Every activity taught a lesson, for example - God has a message for the Christian, but it could not be heard amid the noise of the modern age. One student (God), stood at one end of the room passing a message to another student (the Christian) in a normal voice. The rest of the students stood between the talking and singing in normal voices . The lesson was brought home so effectively that students realized  that the original assurance that he or she would be able to hear God, was replaced by dismay and surprise when they didn’t hear Him over the daily noise and clamour in the room.  It was good fun.

Each of the 12 sessions started with a Bible reading, followed by a prayer.  The lesson would be built upon the Bible reading as we have to first listen to God than respond.  After a short review of the previous week we moved on to the Story Starter, a true story that was often moving.  One brought tears to my eyes each time it was read (Session 8).  The story was about a soldier, Dave, who had had half his face blown away and was anxiously awaiting his fiancée hospital visit.  Moments before she arrive he witness the rejection of his roommate’s wife as she declared, “I could never walk down the street with you again.” (He had been burnt from head to toe), and Dave was fearful he would be rejected also.  But she, looked into his one good eye and bent down and kissed him.  “Dave began to experience love in a way he never imagine...”

Each week we also listed to a 20 to 25 minute DVD talk with Jason & Crystalina Evert and Brian Butler who shared many experiences of their own lives, as well as insightful teaching on purity, chastity, dating and other Theology of the Body topics.

One topic the students found very interesting was on Dating with Purpose and Purity (Session 11).

To see a summary of the students comments click here
Elements of a National Pastoral Initiative For Life and the Family: A Fundamental Option For Life and The Family

A document recently published (Oct. 2011) by the Canadian Conference of Catholic Bishops gives direction to matters on Life and the Family. 

“This vision of the family is also a call to action..For this new generation of apostles to come forward, we need to focus on three main elements: (1) our baptismal call, (2) the laity’s role, and (3) the “theology of the body”.” p. 5

“Theology of the body is the Holy Spirit’s solution to many of the problems which confront us. If effectively communicated through the witness of lived example, it can become the corner stone, the informing principle, of all our efforts to provide formation for individuals and families. And this, clearly, is our single greatest need – what Blessed John Paul II referred to as “solid and deep formation”.9 On that condition, the family can become “an effective agent of evangelization” in Canada.

According to the teaching of the Second Vatican Council, it is only in making a sincere gift of self that the individual can fully find himself (Gaudium et Spes, 24).” p. 7

A few of the many proposed strategies include:
  • Mandatory Marriage preparation consistently based on Blessed John Paul II’s Theology of the Body
  • Confirmation preparation highlighting chastity as self-possession for self-donation (editor’s note - Our new confirmation workshop is in line with this.)
  • Workshops & sessions addressing the concerns of parents (concrete challenges in education, education in the virtues)
  • Collaboration with Catholic schools - in provinces where they exist: providing Theology of the Body-based sex education programs, introductory parenting courses, etc.

To read the whole article click here

We recently completed a Theology of the Body for Teens program at a Catholic High School in Whitby.  The 12 weeks flew by as we facilitated the program to over 100 students in 4 classes from grade 9 to 10.  We really enjoyed the time with the teens and their fresh perspective.  We wish them all the best in the years to come and will keep them in our prayers.  Here are a few of the many comments the students made:

  • I really enjoyed the lesson about dating and how to treat women.  I can’t thank you enough!
  • I especially enjoyed the Dating and Marriage Chapters.  I learned a lot about how to act and treat others in the future.
  • You taught me so much but the bigger and most important lessons are the difference between loving and using, that dating is really looking for a spouse, and that it is important to find a boy who will love me no matter what, not try to change me, and treat me how I should be treated. ... I shouldn’t be dating him if I can’t see myself marrying him.
  • Without the help and guidance from you, I would not have understood God’s call fully... I have perceived life in a new light...
  • The chapters that really struck me were, Dating with Purpose and the Language of the Body... The way you related it to our lives as teens really made it hit home.
  • What moved me the most during the program were the lectures on marriage and how we were created to love each other.  It is a life changing experience.
  • I really liked the activities that we played, my favorites were the one where we learned about each other and the one where we are all talking and there was a message trying to get from God.
  • So many of my questions have been answered that were burning holes in my mind.
  • They really opened my eyes.  I am putting God first and I feel a new sense of inner peace.
  • Before you came, I was unsure of the consequences of some things, such as premarital sex.  I also thought many things could not be forgiven, but you taught me otherwise...
  • It gave me hope that true faithful marriage is still out there.
  • It taught me to DREAM BIG to achieve my goal in life.
  • When we did the activity about God speaking to the Catholic - it taught me that its truly hard to hear him sometimes. 
  • It told me to DREAM BIG and because of that lesson, I think I will become a nun.
  • Chapter 2 & 5 sent me the most powerful messages because I learned the differences love and lust, the values of abstinence and chastity, and a thorough understanding of free will and comparing authentic freedom with the cultural view of freedom.

To see the full summary click here

Theology of the Body for Teens - Response - 2013
Spiritual Anatomy of An Individual

by Tom Kennedy (from God, Sex and the Meaning of Life Ministry)

From the head to the heart. Author and speaker Christopher West, and others, call it the longest fifteen or so inches anyone will ever know. It is the distance they say our faith and understanding has to travel for it to become fulfilled. Some say it comes naturally to them, some say it takes a little effort, some say they know it in their heart but not in their head (in other words, they find faith hard to explain), and some, like me, find the concept and practice very vague, and difficult to understand.

On Our Daily Bread website, Julie Ackerman says "Eventually I realized that the Word of God had to spread through my whole being. I needed to internalize Scripture, to hide it “in my heart” the way a musician does a piece of music. I had to live the Bible as well as I could quote it. As God’s Word spreads from our heads to our hearts, sin loses its power over us." This and many other statements like it are great insights into what we have to do and why we have to do it, but it still doesn't explain what the process is and how it works.

After several years of studying Pope John Paul II's Theology of The Body, and reading explanations of it by authors such as Christopher West, Katrina Zeno, Brian Butler and Jason and Crystalina Evert, and facilitating presentations based on Fr. Robert Barron's great Catholicism series, I have started to glimpse a concept that makes sense to me, a concept that is simple, and, hopefully, one that might help a few of us understand the concept better.

When using the terms Nature, Person, Soul, Spirit, Body and Individual we must remember that although these are individual parts of existence, they are indivisible, and except for Body, they are invisible. Without any one of these attributes, no one would, or could, exist as an individual. So what is an individual?

Nature + Person + Body = Individual. Let's look at these terms one at a time.

To read the whole article click here

Article in the Catholic Register

Church approved sex-ed

Written by Ruane Remy, The Catholic Register  -  Friday, 14 June 2013 

Theology of the Body for Teens teaches Pope John Paul II’s teachings on sexuality.
When Toronto-area residents want to teach teens about God and sex, they call Rose Heron.
Heron is a volunteer with God, Sex and the Meaning of Life Ministry in the Archdiocese of Toronto. The goal of the ministry is to spread Pope John Paul II’s teachings on sexuality. And for the last four years, she and her husband Patrick, coordinator of the teen program, have offered sessions on Theology of the Body for Teens to youth groups and high schools across the archdiocese.

“We want to reach as many young people as possible,” said Heron. “It’s such an important program for them to understand what the Church teaches and why. And it gives them a better understanding of Church teachings around sexuality.”

To read more click here

To arrange a Theology of the Body for Teens program at your Parish or School contact us at:
Girl Talk

Important information for all girls/women is shared in a fun, relaxed and engaging manner. The presentation included some video clips and activities, along with handouts for further information.

Student Testimonials about “Girl Talk”
  • “In my opinion Girl Talk was a great experience. I got to learn lots and meet new girls. The food was great but the interactive activities were epic. I’m glad I attended!! "
  • “I thought that it was an amazing way for me and my mom to spend some time together because we are always running around. So it was an amazing time.”
  • “It was really interesting. I felt like I could be myself and talk freely with the girls and moms, I even got to see some of my friends from other schools. I learned a lot of things to help me later in life and there were a lot of funny moments too!” .  Click here for more information
Bible Study

Mary: A Biblical Walk with the Blessed Mother– Starting January 2019
An Eight-Part Bible Study Featuring Dr. Edward Sri

St. Bernadette’s will be hosting Mary: A Biblical Walk with the Blessed Mother Bible study beginning Wednesday, January 9, at 9:30 am to 11:30 am, or Friday, January 12, at 7:00 pm to 9:00, pm and continuing every Wednesday or Friday until Wednesday February 27, 2019, or Friday, March 1. 2019. This is an 8 week course.  Please join us.

Filmed on location in the Holy Land, Mary: A Biblical Walk with the Blessed Mother will place you in the midst of the powerful drama of Mary’s earthly life, taking you through her joys and her sorrows. You will learn how she works in our lives today, drawing us ever closer to her divine Son. Seeing Mary in this way will change you forever. She will become a part of your daily life and help you to become more like Christ.

In Mary you will:
  • Visit the grotto of Mary’s home, the cave where Christ was born, and other rarely seen places in the Holy Land.
  • See the significance of Mary as you explore the Biblical roots of our beliefs about her.
  • Deepen your devotion to Mary as you discover our Blessed Mother in a uniquely personal way.

Start Dates: Wednesday, January 9, OR Friday, January 12, 2019. 

Wednesday mornings from 9:30 am – 11:30 am
Friday evenings from 7:00 pm – 9:00 pm

Purchase of the Study Guide is optional, at a cost of $35.
St. Bernadette’s Parish Hall, 21 Bayly St. E. Ajax
For more information about the program click here

Our Lady of Guadalupe and the Theology of the Body

A talk by Sr. Helena Burns, fsp, renown speaker in both Canada and the USA.

On Saturday, October 27, Sister Helena Burns came to St. Bernadette parish hall in Ajax, to make a presentation relating Our Lady of Guadalupe to St. John Paul II’s teaching, The Theology of the Body.
Sister filled in the history of Our Lady’s apparitions, to St. Juan Diego, which took place in December of 1531. Some notable facts about this event are:
  • In response to the Bishop’s request for a sign, Mary left a relic, Juan Diego’s tilma (cloak) with her image upon it. In no other appearances has she done this.
  • Tilmas made from the same material as Juan’s have been hung in the cathedral and have completely disintegrated within 7 years. Yet, Juan’s has lasted over 450 years.
  • Her appearances occurred on a place of human sacrifice. Now, on that spot, Masses take place all day long.
  • The second most popular pre-Columbian shrine in Spain was dedicated to Our Lady of Guadalupe. Although this Madonna did not resemble the one from Mexico, there was an image in the choir loft that did.
  • The Mayans had a prophesy that conquerors with hair like the sun would come and defeat the Aztecs and put smiles on the faces of the Indians again.
  • The further one stands from the image, the larger Our Lady appears.
  • Scientists have been unable to explain the image other than to say that it is not plant, animal or mineral in origin.
  • Nitric acid was once spilled on the image and a bomb once exploded below the image. In both cases the image was unharmed, though surrounding items were damaged.
  • The tilma always remains 36.5 °C (normal body temperature), no matter the surrounding temperature.
  • An ophthalmologist fainted as he examined her eyes, saying he was looking into a human eye.
  • Within 10 years of her appearances, there were over 8 million conversions.

In the image of Our Lady of Guadalupe, Mary is pregnant with Jesus. Together, they block out the sun and stand upon the moon, as they are greater than both. In Mary, all human longing is fulfilled. Our healing and hope are in the womb of the Blessed Virgin Mary.

Theology of the Body Study Group

At the present time we are studying the Catechism of the Catholic Church, with an eye towards the Theology of the Body.  Take this opportunity to learn about your faith.  Bring your questions and we will find the answers together.

Please join us on Monday mornings, from 9:30 am to 11:30 am. in St Bernadette’s church hall 21 Bayly St. E. Ajax.  Hope to see you there.
Monday mornings from 9:30 to 11:30

From Sept to June

St. Bernadette’s Parish Hall, 21 Bayly St. E. Ajax

Contact:Tom or Susan Kennedy 905-427-6137 or